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Career Reshaped Episode 3: Feeling Lost? How to Find Clarity and Purpose in Your Career

What if reshaping your career isn’t about following a set roadmap, but about listening closely to what truly matters to you?

In this episode of Career Reshaped, we dive into the real challenges of finding work that feels fulfilling—not just busy work or a paycheck, but a career that aligns with your values and purpose. It’s about defining success in your own terms, rather than the expectations others set for you.

You’ll hear how overcoming personal barriers—like fear, doubt, and uncertainty—is an essential part of this journey. Sometimes that means making tough sacrifices and saying no to distractions, so you can focus on what truly drives you. And sometimes it means leaning on mentors or trusted guides who can help you gain clarity when the path feels unclear.

This episode is for anyone standing at a crossroads, unsure if their next step is the right one, or feeling the pressure to fit into a traditional mold. It’s a reminder that your career doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s, and that embracing the unknown can lead to growth and unexpected opportunities.

If you’ve ever wondered how to find a career that’s not only successful but also meaningful and enjoyable, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you take that leap.

🎧 Tune in for a thoughtful, inspiring conversation about courage, clarity, and living a career that feels like your own.

This Episode Covers:

  • How To Identify the Career That Truly Fits You
  • When Moving Overseas Can Be a Beneficial Career Move
  • The Importance of Taking Time To Discover What Truly Fulfills You
  • Defining What Success Means Personally to You
  • Recognizing the Sacrifices Needed When Reshaping Your Career
  • Identifying if You’re Standing in Your Own Way
  • Staying Focused on Your Goals Despite Challenges
  • The Value of Learning From Mentors and Courses
  • Understanding That Sometimes Losing Something Is Necessary To Gain Something Greater
  • Accepting That It’s Okay Not To Have Your Path Fully Figured Out Yet
  • Remembering That You’re Living for Yourself, Not for Others
Podcast Transcript:
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00:00 a lot of people don't realize is that a career it's not all black and white that
00:05 you can have other things in your life it's not just about work but everything
00:09 i do needs to be about career and that everything that i do needs to give me an
00:13 income one thing that we always say is we still need your passions we always
00:18 say that yeah your career needs to be going but so does your life they need a
00:22 move together and if they're not and if you're just putting all your passions
00:26 back here and all the things that make you excited like there'll be a big gap
00:30 missing unfulfillment so keeping that going is really important this podcast
00:35 is your go-to guide for landing your dream job think of it as your free
00:38 masterclass packed with all the tips advice and strategies you need to take
00:43 your career to the next level in each episode we will dive deep into those
00:49 inspiring stories of professionals who've been exactly where you are today
00:55 searching for their next big career move from nailing the job hunt to securing
01:00 that perfect role we'll explore their challenges breakthroughs and the lessons
01:04 they've learned along the way plus you'll hear how they've grown personally
01:09 and professionally throughout their journey i'm pulling i'm natasha and we
01:13 are your career hosts and we couldn't be more excited for you to join us along in
01:19 this journey so welcome to career shades when your dream job is
01:25 with a reach
01:30 we're your hosts natasha pauling and today we're going to be discussing
01:35 one of the obstacles when it comes to identifying what is the right career for
01:42 you that's right yes and
01:46 we thought a great way to dive right into this topic is to share a story
01:51 because we feel that a lot of you would resonate
01:54 with a lot of the ups and downs of this story and it will touch a lot of topics
01:58 that we can delve deeper into for you that's right now this story probably has
02:04 more ups and downs than most this is a good one to talk about because
02:09 it will show people that it's okay if they got a few ups and downs
02:13 but the story talks about a particular individual now
02:17 for privacy reasons we are going to change
02:20 their name and we are going to call her what are we calling her today natasha
02:28 sophia oh sophia
02:31 love it so sophia
02:34 let's let's talk about her personality she's a very extroverted very social
02:40 um a happy go lucky individual highly intelligent
02:46 she's educated but even the education side of things didn't go so smoothly she
02:52 is an entertainer by nature she loves to sing and dance
02:55 and perform and that is something that initially she wanted to do as her career
03:00 and got into a course in
03:04 music and drama i believe but realize that
03:09 look potentially this is not going to be a path that's
03:13 going to bring me
03:15 enough income to survive it's a hard one to break into i
03:20 understand so she had moved into a business course
03:23 instead this does not mean that she's put her
03:27 drama aside she does this as as a side hustle and
03:33 yeah yeah she has that fulfillment for her passion
03:36 is still there and you know and that's the thing
03:39 a lot of people don't realize is that a career is it's not all black and white
03:45 that you can have other things in your life it's not just about work and i
03:49 think absolutely don't realize that oh hang on not everything i do needs to be
03:54 about career and not everything that i do needs to
03:58 give me an income well that's right and it's
04:02 one thing that we always say is you still need your passions and if
04:07 you're able to do them as a side hobby
04:11 absolutely do them and we always say that yeah your career needs to be going
04:15 but so does your life they need a move together and if they're not and if
04:20 you're just putting all your passions back here and all the things that make
04:23 you excited like for sophia was being in theater and being actually on
04:29 stage there'll be a big gap missing
04:32 unfulfillment so keeping that going is really important well i know she jumped
04:37 around a lot she jumped around between events and administration roles
04:43 and not only did she jump around between these roles but she
04:47 jumped around cities and countries and industries as well and within industries
04:53 too that's right so
04:56 she just couldn't sit still in one place she just it was like an itch like a fire
05:02 under her and she did not feel any fulfillment with anything and i feel
05:07 that she thought oh okay i'll move cities
05:10 well i'll move countries and i'll be happy
05:14 then yeah that'll be that'll be the golden ticket that's what's going to hit
05:17 the spot that's it or i'll move industries and i'll work for this
05:21 industry no it's not the role it's just the industry yeah i'll be happy then or
05:26 i will live here it'll be an adventure i'll i'll get a lot of skills in six
05:30 months in one year and then it will give me the steps to go there
05:36 and you know sometimes though that could be right for you that could
05:42 be sometimes it is just changing industries changing locations for some
05:46 people that is the right way to go but unfortunately for sofia
05:52 it wasn't and do you know why it wasn't there was actually a really um
05:58 a good reason actually why wasn't because sophia never took the time
06:04 to sit and really think about what
06:07 what would fulfill her she never took the time to think
06:10 what do i like she was always in a rush to get something she felt that if she
06:16 wasn't working she was a failure and if she wasn't working in a certain
06:20 type of role she was a failure and she cared a lot about what others thought of
06:24 her but the thing is you're not living your
06:27 life for others you're living your life for
06:30 you and there is no timetable there's no right or wrong
06:35 we all have our own paths and we all everything comes at the right time for
06:41 you i mean let's let's look at you and me natasha i mean i am four years older
06:46 than you but you got married before me you
06:49 had kids before me yes
06:52 if you were going to go by society then technically we knew first i should
06:57 have waited my turn that's right
07:00 but i when you were getting married
07:05 at that age that you got married that was not
07:10 i that was not even an idea in my head it's not something i wanted you got
07:14 married what 25 at 25 i was traveling and i was and
07:20 that's what i wanted to do i wanted to travel and that's just everybody's
07:24 different everyone has their own stories everyone's unique and you go to figure
07:28 out what is right for you what is the path
07:32 you want what excites you and just like you said with sofia she never sat down
07:36 and really i guess analyzed herself and her wants and her needs so she
07:43 met this woman and they were talking they're talking about their careers and
07:46 she was saying how she's a pilot her husband's a pilot
07:50 pilot tell me more
07:54 you know well let's let's hear this and as she decides to
07:59 learn about the industry she realized this is it this is me because let's look
08:04 at the things that sofia likes sophia likes travel she can't sit still
08:09 but she also wants a challenge she wants to have
08:15 some sort of pride in the work that she's doing because as we said earlier
08:21 she did care what people thought about her life and where she was going and
08:26 what she was doing that's right she got a bit of pressure from her family
08:31 um but also i think just being raised with this
08:35 societal stigma about
08:38 you know where one must be in life in order to be
08:43 deemed as a success and and success is so different for
08:48 everyone and and it is a shame how society
08:52 does categorize some things but it's was really good that you know
08:58 sofia met this person and opened her eyes to a few other possibilities
09:03 well this is this is right right and the thing is
09:06 when you think about a pie that you think
09:09 this is not someone's mid-life crisis change
09:12 you think that this is something that you learn
09:15 um
09:18 it's hard studies and something you learn in your 20s now
09:21 the thing is even getting in wasn't easy getting into the course into the studies
09:26 so there was a number of tests that
09:30 you have to do that i had no idea but i'm glad that there is because i mean
09:34 you're trusting your life with something it's not easy but
09:39 the thing is the test i know i would fail i would never become a pilot no
09:42 matter how much i would love it and then a few other tests and
09:47 then the last test was a simulation exam now the thing is
09:53 according to what sophia was telling me pilots also say the same thing that the
09:57 simulation is not really true to what a it is like flying a plane so they don't
10:02 think it's a really great or fair measure because the tiniest little tap
10:07 the plank goes this way in the simulation but that's not reality it
10:10 takes a lot to move the plane to tip it to the side
10:14 she bought this simulator and practice for six
10:18 months at home so that's dedication that's when you know that this is
10:21 something that you're really really interested in doing and you have
10:25 that passion it takes so many of your boxes you're going to go that extra mile
10:30 to get there you're not going to give up and this is a hurdle that does come up a
10:35 lot though when people think oh you know what this is going in the too hard
10:38 basket i failed i can't make it i can't do it even though it sounds like the
10:43 perfect job for me they just give up but it was really
10:47 likely that sofia didn't and that she said she bought the simulator that's
10:51 right and one you know i'm sure that wasn't a cheap exercise
10:55 no it wasn't so you know and i think if you listen to
10:59 our first podcast we talk about um we're touching
11:03 a few topics briefly and obviously as we continue with this channel of ours we're
11:08 going to we'll dig deeper in each each topic and break it up but one of the
11:12 things was was those sacrifices that one needed to make
11:16 um and when i mentioned before that there was with there's a will there's a
11:20 way and the thing is that nothing is black and white
11:24 you can make things work for yourself you just got to figure out
11:28 how to do that what steps i need to take so for sofia she's still worked so she
11:33 got a job and she she signed up with a contract
11:36 that she knew was only like a short-term contract but she was able to earn an
11:42 income she had some savings and she borrowed a little bit
11:47 so she was able to do certain sacrifices make certain sacrifices
11:52 and still study and live her life in the meantime
11:56 nothing was on pause yeah yeah still
12:00 so friends still did the theater in the background as well kept her passions
12:05 going so i mean this is a woman that has a lot of energy
12:10 so she's a little bit of an energizer bunny so she's able to cramp a lot in in
12:14 a day i i remember seeing her calendar once and it was just back-to-back things
12:20 but that's how she wanted to live her life
12:23 how what she wanted to do well this does go back to personalities right so you
12:28 got to find the right roles for you to be a pilot is not easy there's a lot
12:34 there's a lot of travel a lot of energy involved a lot of
12:37 focus that needs to go into it that's it is not for everyone and that's
12:42 the thing that if sophia sat down and really took the time to analyze her
12:47 life's dislikes passions what drives her what motivates her
12:52 this whole list that we see she would be able to see
12:56 that i like to travel i like to be social i need to be stimulated i need to
13:02 use up my energy you know i need to feel
13:06 something that i'm doing is important and valued and
13:10 of course father ticks all these boxes there's other jobs as well they take
13:14 similar this boxes but pilot is one of them and
13:18 when she did go into the course and the course was intense and she had to live
13:22 on live on campus and the
13:26 the studies the
13:28 the training she had very little sleep the diet was not the best but she was
13:34 committed yeah and and that's the whole point is that
13:38 there will be hurdles there will be things that get in the way
13:41 a lot of the hurdles are you yourself
13:45 doubting yourself thinking something's too hard to do but
13:50 as sophia showed that yeah she's been many years doing lots of
13:54 different jobs thinking this will find fulfillment thinking this is what she
13:58 wanted realizing it's not moving constantly moving
14:02 and the networking she did
14:06 helped her figure out that there was even a possibility to be a pilot and
14:11 that is like what colin was saying earlier about personality and knowing
14:15 what other jobs are out there and that is difficult for some people to think oh
14:19 accountant lawyer doctor you know the basics
14:22 to broaden your horizons and think outside of the box of what else is out
14:26 there when she did that the commitment that
14:30 went into it for here this is a
14:33 a big part of it in this particular story is the commitment and the not
14:37 giving up the dedication and the sacrifices as you said earlier you said
14:43 you know sometimes we need to sacrifice some things and for her it was
14:47 her free time she had sacrificed the whole time she was living on campus
14:52 the whole time she her friends family no she was she had to move to another state
14:58 and stay there and eat leave breathe
15:03 the qantas course
15:07 but what drove her was the the end goal the bigger picture and the
15:12 fact that well this situation is not forever
15:16 this situation is temporary and this situation is not a reflection
15:20 on the job it's these steps that i need to take to
15:25 get to the career that i want to be in this is not the career this is the
15:30 journey towards it she didn't just listen to what she was
15:35 told by the teachers but she wanted to improve her chances of passing so she
15:40 did source out mentors she did reach out to other people and that's the thing is
15:45 that you are in control of your own learning
15:50 journey you know your growth and development
15:53 and a lot of us are stuck in these i feel
15:57 like it's constantly this black and white thinking this you know i'm going
16:00 to go here and i'm going to learn this the next job i'm going to learn that and
16:03 that but you can skip certain steps as well in your career
16:08 by getting these mentors taking up some
16:12 extra courses doing reading whatever it is getting practice somewhere else on
16:17 the side you can skip ahead now she didn't do
16:21 that and i think someone told her to do that she actively sought out these
16:25 older um more skilled pilots for those extra
16:30 tips and tricks and how do i do this and what do i do where what am i doing wrong
16:35 and how do i fix it to get to that next level so
16:40 you don't have to do this if you're not interested in in growing your career to
16:44 a certain degree like some people very happy and content to be
16:48 a certain level but if you do have this ambition and you want to skip ahead you
16:52 can you can jump a few steps
16:56 you know yeah you can definitely do that and i mean i know people that
17:00 we both know some people that are happy where they are and they actually don't
17:03 want to ever manage a team they don't ever want to progress up they're just
17:06 really happy getting in doing their work they like their work it's not that
17:10 they're like oh i can you know switch off no
17:13 they actually enjoy their work and they're happy in their position that's
17:16 all they want to do and they rather do bigger things outside of work that's
17:20 great you know yourself that well you know what is fun for you do that but
17:26 then there are others that do want to progress further and i know some
17:29 personally where they do exactly what you just said where
17:33 they find those mentors and they ask them for a coffee i've been
17:37 following you can we catch up i just want to pick your brain a little bit and
17:41 usually those people are happy to do that
17:44 because personally it's a bit of an ego boost they're happy that somebody has
17:49 been watching them and wants to pick their brain especially
17:53 if you have a connection to them so like oh you know i'm friends with with mark
17:58 and he's told me to reach out to you then then
18:01 they're also more willing to have a chat because they don't want to let mark down
18:04 and see what they do like what does a day in
18:07 the life look like what what time do you wake up
18:10 and if it's say you know a big someone that owns multiple businesses
18:15 they may say you know i wake up at 5 00 a.m
18:18 and i read the paper and or i read a chapter of a book and it could be i only
18:24 have a coffee later or i don't have coffee and just see obviously not
18:27 everything's going to align with you you know if someone said to me don't have
18:30 coffee i'd be like okay i'll talk to you later
18:33 you know that's not exactly my thing but you pick what fits your lifestyle and
18:39 thought fits you and learn from them see what they do and try to build those
18:45 habits because it's those habits and that commitment to those habits that
18:51 rewire your brain you know you start creating
18:54 different neural pathways and create new positive habits
19:00 to keep you on track in your career journey whatever that may be
19:05 and it's the same for life you know doing those things that you
19:09 enjoy outside of your career as well which is what we said earlier about
19:13 keeping those passions going what is it that i can do
19:17 that fits into my work life and family life that ticks my boxes so it could be
19:23 that you may have so many passions like oh i want to go rock climbing i want to
19:27 be jet skiing i want to do a triathlon i also want to learn how to i know skydive
19:32 it's like okay maybe you can't do all of them at once some people go a little bit
19:36 crazy and book this in and book that in but then you're letting something else
19:40 drop so you need to find a good balance and a good path
19:46 that you can actually follow but i think it's important to note that
19:50 there's no such thing as a 50 50 it's an equal balance you're never going to find
19:56 that there's always something that has to give
19:58 if you're going to start committing more energy into your career then family and
20:02 friends are gonna waddle off or you're healthy fitness my waddle off vice versa
20:08 with all of it so of course you need to prioritize what
20:12 is the most important to you and put that energy in there
20:16 so and when it comes to changing habits
20:19 it's not easy i think it's really easy for you and me to sit there like you
20:23 just got to find a mentor and change those habits no problems
20:28 that's why i think there's a book called atomic habits it's a really great one um
20:32 to read but what it talks about is how the really smallest changes can make the
20:36 biggest impacts and that's that's it you don't need to
20:40 do too much too quickly small steps will actually get you there because you
20:47 are not going to give up you it's manageable you can handle it you're not
20:52 going to get burnt out you're not going to
20:55 fail at least not fail easily when you're doing these small
21:01 changes to your life and it could just be about
21:05 reading something for 15 minutes a day so i absolutely agree and this is what
21:09 we do even in our um goal setting coaching sessions we have a big goal and
21:16 then we have little goals to achieve that big goal but then in
21:21 each little goal we have steps with a little tick box and once you take
21:26 off one step you're still far from the big goal
21:31 but it's just like you said that the little ticks little achievements every
21:36 day really
21:38 make a huge impact and moving forward you can move
21:43 yeah it's also the the positive you know that giddy feeling that you feel inside
21:48 when you have the a child you know if you brush your teeth
21:53 you get to go you know 10 minutes on my phone not that's a great reward to give
21:57 but as an example it's that reward that you get and for
22:02 yourself it's that reward of accomplishment and being proud of
22:07 yourself that you did it and that will help make those changes in
22:12 their habits and that will then help you keep moving forward
22:17 but first you need to figure out where
22:19 you're moving forward too well i guess just to sum up today's
22:24 session it's okay if you don't know what it is you want to be doing and it's okay
22:28 if you feel that what you're doing now is the wrong path for you
22:33 that's it's never too late to make a change and that's all you need to do is
22:38 give yourself the time and respect of learning and discovering who you are
22:45 and it's not something that you can do in one night you do need the time
22:49 to reflect on that and the thing is the more
22:52 as you go about doing it more ideas will come into your mind you're like oh
22:57 actually i like this as well really
23:00 dig deep like you got to have this um you know emotional connection with
23:06 yourself that can take time and once you've
23:10 unlocked all of that then
23:13 sort of step back and say well is there a story that's emerging from here and
23:17 then start researching the different roles that you feel that align with you
23:22 your values your likes your passions your skills
23:27 and then understand that position bit better see
23:32 yeah it resonates and i think you'll know
23:35 when you suck in this butterflies like i think you know then you can start
23:38 looking at what's needed what do i need what's the gaps how can i
23:44 get there and take your time there's no time frame when this needs to be done
23:49 again if you are committed and serious about making that change then
23:55 don't turn your back on it either do it as a
23:59 personal exercise for your personal self growth and development at the very least
24:03 correct absolutely it's you'll only thank yourself at the end of
24:08 it and if you do struggle you know there
24:11 are tools and and people that can help you get back on path
24:15 but if you can just take that time and do that it could be very exciting what
24:20 unravels from there hmm absolutely
24:25 this is what i did to fun my
24:28 korean hr literally this
24:32 this method and this is the method that we've helped
24:35 many of our clients find their career paths too
24:39 yeah i mean we set out the questions for them but
24:42 the main ones that for you to start off with is what we said before your likes
24:48 and dislikes of everything of everything work
24:54 the people around you everything what drives you as a human um which is
25:00 what do you value what's important to you it could be even your what what
25:06 makes you who you are how you grew up the stories that you have from your
25:10 childhood that you this happened in the past that was interesting maybe that's a
25:16 path i want to go down or you met someone when you were a kid and doing
25:20 this process starts bringing up old memories and stories and can really open
25:27 that up for you and makes you realize everything that's
25:31 happened has made you who you are today and where you're going and if you're not
25:35 happy with where you're going if you know what now that i'm looking at this
25:39 list i'm not happy with who i am today you can start implementing changes and
25:45 if you are happy it's like well you're happy to stay where you are today or do
25:50 you want to move forward or sideways or maybe backwards
25:54 you never know let's see and just so you know
25:58 final point there is no right or role on that list
26:02 if you value something then you value it
26:06 if this is important to you then it's important to you
26:10 it doesn't matter if it's not important to someone else or someone says really
26:16 that's that's what you value no we don't share this list with anyone
26:21 this is between you and you yeah absolutely don't listen to others
26:25 just that's when things get really messy when
26:28 you start listening to too many people especially when
26:33 they maybe don't know you well enough or they don't
26:35 know about about careers or life or anything they
26:40 don't know you so you do you like i've said in the very
26:44 beginning of this is that you're living for you not for others and
26:49 the thing is when people are giving you advice there's usually a biases behind
26:53 it either don't want to see you succeed or have fear for you
26:59 and worried for you to make these changes or have their own
27:03 perceptions and predispositions to things and and they're putting it on
27:07 onto you that's them that's not you only you know
27:11 what is right and best for you that's right
27:14 so hopefully in this episode today you guys have
27:18 figured out some ways to see how or if you need to reshape your career and some
27:25 tools that you can use to do that so the delving deep into who you are
27:32 pros and cons likes dislikes figuring out
27:36 what gives you those little butterflies and networking talk to people see what
27:41 they do actually be curious about what do you do
27:45 what does that mean what does a day in the life look like if you want to
27:49 progress further find a mentor if you're not sure how to find a mentor
27:53 you can reach out to us but you can also look at linkedin use the network you
27:57 have speak to your friends hey you know what i'm thinking of you know moving up
28:01 um yeah i'm a lawyer i'm thinking of move adapter to general counsel do you
28:04 know anyone that i can chat to about that do you know anyone that is actually
28:07 doing that i'd like to pick their brain simple as that the worst you get is a no
28:12 the best you get is oh actually yeah here's someone's own here's their number
28:16 you'll be surprised how people do like to help other people
28:19 yeah absolutely so we hope you enjoyed and we look forward to seeing you on the
28:24 next one bye bye

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